Adult lingo, slang, terms and definitions
The following is an index of the most commonly used abbreviations, terms, definitions and lingo in the adult services industry used for informative purposes only and should not be considered as an educational or reference point, some terms refer to what some might find offensive while others are referred from online open-sources such as Wiki.
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A
A-Level service
Used in high-end escort lingo as an euphemism for Anal Sex.
Agency
An organization or individual that manages many providers. The agency handles all calls, bookings and advertising. The agency takes a percentage of the fee for each session.
Agent
Someone acting on behalf of or representing an ASP
Amazon
A tall, strong, often masculine woman.
AMP
Asian Massage Parlor.
ASP
Adult Service Provider.
Analingus
Oral stimulation of the anus.
Around The World
- Rimming. Oral sex on the anus of either sex, analingus
- Three acts in a session: oral, vaginal and anal
- Analingus and fellatio
Asian
Oral sex on the anus of either sex, analingus, aka rimming, DATO.
Asian Cowgirl
cowgirl with girl squatting.
ATF
All Time Favorite.
ATM
Ass To Mouth. Penis, finger or toy comes out of receiver’s anus, and goes directly into receiver’s mouth.
Attempts
Trying to reach orgasm. e.g. ASP allowed multiple attempts: means the ASP allows more than one orgasm per session if the client is able and interested. aka MSOG.
Aunt Flo
Menstruation, period. ‘Being visited by Aunt Flo‘.
B
B&D
Bondage and Discipline.
B&S
Bait & Switch, describes a situation where ASP advertisements, which may include photos, written or verbal descriptions, do not match the ASP who shows up, or which has been grossly misrepresented the ASP.
Babyback
Petite, young, attractive Asian woman.
Baby Dyke
A young lesbian or someone who is just coming out of the closet.
Bag
Condom, with a condom, e.g. “BJ in a bag” = CBJ or “I filled the bag” = orgasm.
Baja Sur
Genitals. From the spanish “the low south”.
Balloons
Breast implants.
Bare Back, Bareback
Without a condom. Depending upon context it may be used as shorthand for intercourse without a condom (BBFS).
Barracuda
An ASP whose only purpose is to separate you from your money as quickly as possible, preferably without giving you anything in return.
Batin
Groin massage, but sometimes means hand job
BBBJ
Bare Back Blow Job. fellatio without a condom; aka “un-translated French” (UTF).
BBBJNQNS
Bare Back Blow Job No Quit No Spit; oral sex performed to completion with swallowing.
BBBJTC
Bareback Blowjob To Completion. Oral stimulation of the penis to orgasm without a condom. (May spit or swallow), aka CIM.
BBBJTCWS
Bare Back Blow Job to Completion with Swallowing.
BBBJWF
Bareback Blowjob With Facial.
BBFS
Sexual intercourse without a condom.
BBW
Big Beautiful Woman. An escort, ASP, who caters to clientele that prefer fuller-figured to overweight women.
BCD
Behind Closed Doors. Often used to mean activities that will be described to a privileged listener or nobody at all.
BDSM
Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism. This is a catch-all to refer to the various aspects of negotiated, mutually consensual exchange of power between two consenting adults. Regardless of the depth of the relationship, consent, safety and sanity are the cornerstone of this lifestyle.
Beard
A person of the opposite sex who marries or dates a closeted lesbian or gay person to cover up their homosexuality. In the past, often lesbians married gay men so that both could “pass” as straight, either for work or for their families.
Beret
A condom.
BF
Boyfriend.
BFE
Boyfriend Experience, A subjective term used primarily by ASP to describe good clients.
Birdwatching
BBBJTC or CIM and ASP swallows. See BBBJNQNS, NQNS.
Bisexual
A person who is sexually and emotionally attracted to both women and men.
Blackhole
Anus.
Blue Pill Or Blue Steel
Viagra.
BJ
Blow job, fellatio, French. Oral stimulation of the penis.
BL
Body Lick.
BLS
Ball Licking and Sucking.
Body-Rub
A massage or massage-like service. Used instead of “massage”, usually to indicate sexual stimulation (usually a handjob) is included and the person performing the service is not licensed as a massage therapist, aka FBSM, Sensual Massage.
Brown Eye
Anus.
Brown Shower
Defecation on your partner.
BS or Body Slide
Service where the ASP may slide their body on the client’s body using oil.
Bukkake
A variety of fetish that involves repeated ejaculation of a female by many men. See also gokkon.
Bulldagger
A term that was used in the 1920s to define a very butch lesbian. Often African American.
Bulldyke
A very masculine lesbian.
Businessmen-Only, Gentlemen-Only Or Professional-Only
A subjective request used in ASP advertising as a pre-screen for a given type of clients which in this case points out to an upscale type of clients.
Butch
A woman who adopts what would be considered masculine characteristics.
Butter Face
A women whose body is very attractive, but her face is not. Everything looks good but ‘er face.
C
Canine, K9
See Doggy style.
Cash And Dash
A rip-off. The person posing as an ASP shows up, takes your money, doesn’t provide any services or might offer to “dance” (but more often than not does not), and leaves with the cash, aka dance and dash, ROB.
CBJ
Covered Blow Job. Blowjob or with a condom on, aka translated French (TF).
C Rider
An ASP who is FS for $200/hr or less. The “CC” bit is the Roman numeral for 200.
CC
Concentration Camp Look.
CD
cross-dresser: A person, and especially a male who adopts the dress and often the behavior typical of the opposite gender especially for purposes of emotional or sexual gratification.
A person who sometimes wears the clothing and aesthetics of a gender other than the one they typically wear in their daily lives. See also Transvestite
CDS
Covered Doggy Style.
CFS
Covered Full Service. Sexual intercourse (coitus) with a condom.Chump
CID
Cum In Deep. The provider lets you come inside her with no condom. See BBFS.
CIH
Cum in Hair.
CIM
Cum In Mouth (in the context of fellatio without a condom (UTF/BBBJ)), see alsoNQNS, BBBJTC.
Clock Watcher
An ASP who counts the minutes until the session is over. Usually used to describe an ASP who rushes and does not enjoy her work.
CMD
Carpet Matches Drapes (typically a natural blonde).
CMP
Chinese Massage Parlor.
CMT
Certified Massage Therapist. Generally a CMT is not an ASP. While an ASPspecializing in massage services might be a CMT, it is unwise to assume a CMT is an ASP. Very unwise.
COB
Cum On Body. Man ejaculates on a woman’s body.
COF
Cum On Face. Man ejaculates on woman’s face, aka face painting or facial.
COH
Cum on Hair.
Coitus
Sexual intercourse characterized by the male penis entering the female vagina.
Collar And Cuffs Match
A euphemism to indicate that pubic hair color matches color of the hair on the head; natural hair coloring. Sometimes also referred to as ‘carpet & curtains match’.
Completion
Orgasm. e.g. Bareback blowjob to completion.
Courtesan
The term courtesan has become a euphemism to designate an escort or a prostitute, especially the ones who attracts wealthy clients. Courtesans are reputated to catering to select and low volume clients in order to allocate a more custom and adapted companionship while offering an upscale experience.
Cover
A condom.
Covered
Various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid sexually transmitted diseases. (e.g. Covered Blowjob means a condom was used.)
Cowgirl
‘Girl on top’ position for sexual intercourse. Sometimes abbreviated CG (though this can be confused with the abbreviation for Call Girl as well. Mind the context for clarification.).
Crime Scene Action
Sexual activity during the provider’s period (while menstruating). See also red wings.
Crone
The word “crone” was (and in some circles still is) a derogatory term for an old woman. In the 1970s, during the feminist movement, lesbians began to adopt the word crone to mean a wise older woman. Today, in lesbian and feminist circles, a crone is a wise older woman whose life experience demands that she be treated with respect.
Cruising
Looking for prostitutes while driving. Cyber-equivalents aren’t hard to imagine.
Crushing
Fetish relating to dominance and control; a desire to see small, defenseless animals crushed under women’s high heels.
Cunnilingus
Oral stimulation of a woman’s genitalia. ‘giving head’ to a woman. ‘going down on’ a woman.Cups Of Coffee
Orgasms, e.g. multiple cups of coffee means the provider allows more than one orgasm.
D
Dance And Dash
A rip-off. The person posing as an ASP shows up, takes your money, doesn’t provide any services or might offer to “dance” (but more often than not does not), and leaves with the cash. See cash and dash, ROB.
Date
(1) A session with an ASP. (2) A person who patronizes an ASP.
Date Rape Drug
Rohypnol (generic name flunitrazepam) has been associated with date rape, and has also been called the “Forget Pill,” “Trip-and-Fall,” and “Mind-Erasers.” In combination with alcohol, it can induce a blackout with memory loss and a decrease in resistance. Girls and women around the country have reported being raped after being involuntarily sedated with Rohypnol, which was often slipped into their drink by an attacker. The drug has no taste or odor so the victims don’t realize what is happening. About ten minutes after ingesting the drug, the woman may feel dizzy and disoriented, simultaneously too hot and too cold, or nauseated. She may experience difficulty speaking and moving, and then pass out. Such victims have no memories of what happened while under the drug’s influence.
DATO
Dining At The O. Analingus, oral stimulation of the anus. See also rimming and Asian.
DATY
Dine At The “Y”; cunnilingus.
DDE
Doesn’t Do Extras. Implies the ASP has a very limited and stringently adhered to menu.
DDF
Drug and Disease Free.
DDG
Drop Dead Gorgeous.
Deep Throat or DT
Fellatio where the whole length of the penis is “swallowed”.
Deposit
A payment in advance of a session. Deposits are usually required by an ASP as a hedge against no-shows.
DFE
Dead Fish Experience.
DFF
Dead Fish Fuck.
DFK
Deep French Kissing. Kissing with deep, substantial tongue contact.
Digital Penetration
Insertion of the fingers (or toes) in the vagina or anus for the purpose of sexual stimulation. This has nothing to do with the insertion of digital devices up anyone’s orifice!
Dirty Sanchez
When two people engage in anal sex, then the person who has been ‘giving it’ to the other’s ass takes his penis or penis-like implement and rubs it on the other person’s upper lip leaving a moustache.
DIY
Do It Yourself (masturbation). See also self-service.
Doggie Style
Rear entry position for sexual intercourse. See Spanish.
Donation
A euphemism for a payment to an ASP. Generally considered a feeble dodge against legal concerns—after all if you are giving the ASP a donation or gift, you are not paying for sex.
Double Penetration
When a person (generally a female) has two objects (generally penises) simultaneously inserted in any two of the mouth, anus or vagina (most commonly the anus and vagina).
Doubles or Duos
A threesome with two ASPs.
DP
Double Penetration or Digital Penetration
Drag King
A woman who dresses to look like a man, usually for performance. Drag kings are often lesbian, but not always.
DS
doggiestyle.
DT Or Deep Throat
fellatio where the whole length of the penis is “swallowed”.
Dyke
Another word for lesbian. Usually it is only used by people who are gay, lesbian, bisexual or transsexual. A straight person using this word in an unfamiliar enviroment may be piercieved as offensive.
E
ED
Erectile Dysfunction.
EE
Erotic Enema.
EMA
Extra-Marital-Affairs. Affairs after marriage, but before divorce.
EMP
European Massage Parlor (Caucasian girls).
English
Segment of bondage and discipline; including spankings/whippings.
Enhancements
Implants, most commonly breast implants, but sometimes penile implants (depending upon context).
Envelope
Often cash payments for an ASP’s services are placed in an envelope. Rather than handing the ASP cash directly, or discussing money, the envelope is left in a conspicuous location for the ASP to discreetly pick up.
Escort
An ASP who is paid for her time and companionship (only).
Escort Mall, Mall
A website that advertises many different ASPs. The ASPs may be independent or agency, and may or may not be associated with each other, or with the mall.
F
F2f
A female doing something to (providing a service for) a female.
F2m
A female doing something to (providing a service for) a male.
Face Painting
Man ejaculates on woman’s face, aka facial or COF.
Facial
Man ejaculates on woman’s face, aka face painting or COF.
FBSM
Full Body Sensual Massage. A massage usually ending with a hand job. Often times the provider is nude or topless, aka Body Rub, Sensual Massage.
Fellatio
Oral stimulation of the penis, aka Blow Job (BJ), ‘giving head’ (f2m or m2m).
Femme
The French translation of the word Woman.
Fisting
The act or art of putting a fist in an anus or vagina. Apparently a very popular practice among more evolved (kinky) gays. It requires great care and huge amounts of lubrication. .
FIV
Finger In Vagina, digital stimulations.
FJ
Foot Job. Stimulation of the penis using feet and toes.
FK
French Kissing.
Flake
One who exhibits flaky or erratic behavior. Often used to describe ASPs or hobbyists who no-show and/or have scheduling issues.
FMF
Threesome designation: female, male, female.
FOBU
Fat-Old-Bald-Ugly.
FOTC
Fuck Of The Century.
FOV
Finger Outside Vagina.
FR
Field Report, Fuck Review.
French
Oral stimulation of the penis. Fellatio. “Translated” with a condom. “Untranslated” without a condom.
French Kissing
Kissing on mouth with tongue contact
FS
Full service. Sexual intercourse (coitus) to completion.FTF
Fun To Fuck.
FUD
Fear, Uncertainty and Doubt. What some posters try to spread when they post on public forums with false accusations of LE activity and STD outbreaks.
Full Meal Deal
Sexual intercourse (coitus) to completion, aka Full Service.
FUTB
Finger Up The Butt.
G
GND
Girl Next Door
Gender Expression
The physical manifestation of one’s gender identity, usually expressed through clothing, mannerisms, and chosen names.
Gender Identity
A person’s internal sense of being a man or woman or boy or girl. For transgender people, their gender identity will not match the gender with which they were born.
Gender Identity Disorder
A term used by physicians and psychologists to classify people who are transgender or transsexual.
Gender Variance
Behavior that is different from traditionally defined “masculine” in males and “feminine” in females.
Genderqueer
Someone who transgresses boundaries of gender identity and sexual orientation.
Gentlemen Only
businessmen-only or professional-only. A subjective request used in ASP advertising as a pre-screen for clients. The ASP posts this in hopes of attracting a “better” clientele.
Get Comfortable
Get naked. As a feeble dodge of law enforcement, an ASP may ask a client to “get comfortable” or “make yourself comfortable” before a session, this means to get fully undressed.
GF
Girl Friend.
GFE (view )
Girlfriend Experience. A frequently used, but utterly nebulous term. It refers to a session that is more like lovemaking with a girlfriend than a commercial or rushed service. It generally implies more about the tone & tenor of the session than about specific services provided, but many believe GFE should include the possibility of DFK, DATY, UTF and a broad array of FS positions.
Menu
The services generally considered available from a particular ASP.
Merkin
Pubic hair wig / toupee. Also, something George W. Bush has repeatedly said he is proud to be.
MFF
Threesome designation: Male, female, female.
MFM
Threesome designation: male, female, male.
MG
Massage Girl.
MIB
Man in blue, law enforcement officer.
Mileage
A subjective term that describes value for money and/or how accommodating an ASP is. Good mileage usually means she either charges less than average, provides betterL/A/S than average, or both.
Mature (view )
The abreviation stands for Mom/Mother I’d Like/Love to Fuck, although it is generally linked to mature, older women with sex appeal.
MILF (view )
The abreviation stands for Mom/Mother I’d Like/Love to Fuck, although it is generally linked to mature, older women with sex appeal.
Missionary
Also mish. A position for sexual intercourse where the man is on top.
MJ
Massage Job.
ML
Make Love
or Massage Lady.
MMF
Threesome designation: male, male, female.
Mohawk
A pubic hair style leaving a narrow strip of hair in the middle of the pubic area, aka landing strip, muff hawk, cock mohawk.
Monger
One who frequents prostitutes. See also hobbyist.
MP
Massage Parlor or Multiple Positions
MPA
Massage Parlor Attendant.
MPCFS
Multiple Positions Covered Full Service.
MPOS
Multiple Positions Oral Sex.
MSOG (view )
Multiple Shots On Goal, also Multiple Pops. The ASP allows you the opportunity to climax more than once during the session.
N
NC/NS, NCNS
No Call / No Show. See also no-show.
Newbie
Newb, a novice hobbyist or novice ASP.NGP
Non/Not Genuine Photos.
NMG
No-Money Guys. Hobbyists who are on a strict (generally low) budget for hobbying.
Nooner
A lunch-time or afternoon session, popular with married hobbyists.
Non-Pro
A person who makes her/himself available for sexual encounters for financial gain only occasionally (possibly to meet some short-term financial needs). May be less discreet than a provider and more interested in a relationship. Some argue that ‘the line’ is more definitive—if you take money, then you are a professional.
No-Show
When an ASP or hobbyist doesn’t show up for an appointment and has not contacted the other party in advance to cancel or warn of problems in making the appointment. A very annoying and, unfortunately, too common occurrence in the hobby. When the offending party doesn’t call afterwards to offer an explanation and/or apology the situation is referred to as a No-Show/No-Call (NS/NC) and is considered an even more egregious offense.
No-Touch
No touching allowed. (e.g. no-touch Jack shack, no-touch strip club).
NQBC
Non-quitter, but covered. CBJ to completion.
NQBS
Non-quitter, but spitter. BBBJTC and spits your ejaculate.
NQNS
No Quit No Spit; oral sex performed to completion with swallowing.
NRP
No Reviews Please
NSA
No Strings Attached.
NS/NC
No Show / No Call. see also no-show.
O
O, O’s
Orgasm or orgasms.
Off The Clock
Activities that occur with an ASP that she chooses not to charge for. (e.g. “We had lunch off-the-clock“).
ONS
One Night Stand.
OTC
Oral To Completion. Fellatio to orgasm.
Out
As in “outed”. Private, personal information on a hobbyist or an ASP is made public. e.g. Someone’s real name and address is posted to a public forum.
Outcall
The ASP comes to the client’s location.
Out Of The Closet
Being open about one’s (LGBT) sexual orientation.
OVN
Overnight.
OWO
Oral Without, fellatio without a condom, aka BBBJ, UTF.
OWOTC
Oral Without Condom To Completion.
P
P4P
Pay for Play. Refers to the concept of paying for sex.
Papasan
Male manager of an asian massage parlor.
Party Hat
Condom.
Pearl Necklace
Man ejaculates on woman’s neck and/or chest, trying to produce a white ‘decoration’.
Pegging
Anal penetration of a male by either a butt plug or strap-on.
Pillow Queen
Someone who likes to be on the receiving end of sex withouth much reciprocation.
Pooner
A hobbyist who is immersed in the hobby culture. He may be very involved with the review boards and/or private exchange of information on ASPs and the hobby.
Pop, Pops
Orgasms. An ASP may allow a client to have more than one orgasm during the session (e.g. more than one or multiple pops allowed).
Post-Op
Post-Op (Post-Operation) is the physical state of a transsexual who has undergone a genital surgery commonly known as SRS (Sex Reassignment Surgery).
Professional-Only
Also gentleman-only, businessmen-only. A subjective request used in ASP advertising as a pre-screen for clients.
Prostitute
A person who receives monetary payments or donations in exchange for providing sexual services is called a prostitute
Prostitution is the act or practice of providing sexual services to another person in exchange for monetary payment. The person who receives such services is known by a multitude of terms, including “Hobbyist” or “Fanatic”.
Prostitution occurs in a variety of forms. Brothels are establishments specifically dedicated to prostitution, although they are not considered legal in Canada. In escort prostitution, the act may take place at the customer’s residence or hotel room (referred to as out-call), or at the escort’s residence or in a hotel room rented for the occasion by the escort (called in-call). Another form is street prostitution, not the safest for the prostitutes nor the community.
Provider or Service Provider (SP)
In the adult industry, the SP or Provider is the person that provides adult services.
PS
Private Show (Dance only).
PSE
Porn Star Experience. A session that gives the feeling of being in a Porn or XXX Movie or like having a date with a Porn Star. As with the Girlfriend Experience (GFE), a PSE is not very well defined and definitions will vary wildly. It generally refers more to the tone & tenor of the session (totally wild!) than to specific services provided, but many believe PSE should include the possibility of DATY, UTF, Greek, DFK, NQNS, Russian, COF and a broad array of FS positions.
Puffies Or Puffers
Breasts where the entire areola appears ‘puffy’, enlarged, or swollen.
Private Viewing
A session that is most often limited to a striptease and self-service. Usually in the context of a Strip Club.
PW
Pussy Whipped. Adjective describing a guy controlled by a female in exchange for sex or other means of persuation.
Q
Queef
An emission of air from the vagina, especially when noisy, aka vaginal fart or vart.
R
R & T
Rub and Tug. A massage followed by a hand job.
RA
Relaxation Assistant.
Raincoat
condom.
Raw
Sex without condom.
RBYC or Read Before You Contact/Call
This is our addition and contribution to the masses, prior to getting in touch with an ASP, take the time to read their profile, specially on our websites, while most of the basic info is provided and elaborated, ASP’s tend to lose patience when they’re stuck repeating themselves while answering questions to answers already provided, be a gentlemen and save yourselves both the valuable time
RCA
Reverse Cowgirl Anal.
RCG
See Reverse cowgirl.
Red Wings
The ‘badge’ a hobbyist earns for performing oral sex (cunnilingus) on an ASP who is menstruating.
REQ
Request. Used in the subject line of a post to indicate the body contains a request for information. See also 411.
REV
Review. Used in the subject line of a post to indicate the body contains review of an ASP.
Reverse Cowgirl
Woman rides on top, facing away.
Reverse Half-And-Half
Sexual intercourse followed by oral sex to completion.
Reverse Massage
The client massages the ASP.
Reverse Oral
The client performs oral sex on the ASP.
Review
A critical evaluation of a provider. May include information on her looks, attitude and service.
Rimming Or Rimjob
Analingus; oral stimulation of the anus.
RLD
Red Light District. Area rich with prostitution.
R.O.B. or ROB
Run/Rip Off Bitch. Individuals posing as providers take the money and run without providing any services, aka Cash and Dash. .
Roman
An orgy situation.
Roman Shower
Vomit play.
Russian
Rubbing a penis between ASP‘s breasts. Usually results in pearl necklace.
S
Safe
Sexual activity in which various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid diseases transmitted by sexual contact. e.g. All activities were safe.
San Juan Capistrano
BBBJTC and the ASP swallows. See also CIM, BBBJNQNS, birdwatching.
Sandbag, Sandbagger
A subjective term for a review (or reviewer) that attempts to mislead the reader by giving unwarranted praise to a provider.
Scat or Brown Shower
Defecation on one’s partner or feces play.
Screening
An ASP or agency does a pre-session background check on a new client. E.g. collecting verifiable personal info such as the hobbyist’s real name, place of employment, home or work phone, home or work address, and/ or a referral from a trusted provider. Upfront deposits may also be used as a screening tool to hedge against no-shows.
Self-Review
Also Self-post. An ASP or agency poses as a hobbyist, and posts a highly positive review of herself or agency to increase business.
Self Service
Masturbation. e.g. “It was a self-service jack shack” = no contact with the ASP, but the client can masturbate.
Sensual Massage or SM
Indicates a Massage with sexual stimulation (usually a hand job)
Session
Time spent with an ASP
SFH
Sex For Hire
SG
Street Girl
Shemale
A more polite word than using “Trannie”, Shemale is the term referred to a Transsexual or female transgender adult service provider, see also SRS.
Shots On Goal
Attempts to reach orgasm. e.g. ‘ She allowed multiple shots on goal’ means she allows more than one orgasm per session if the client is able and interested. See MSOG.
Sifty Nine
Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously. See also 69.
Snowball
An unwarranted or overzealous harsh review or abusive criticism of an ASP or agency.
Slam, Slammed
ASP receives ejaculation in her mouth and returns it via kissing to the ejaculator.
SO
Significant Other. Spouse or partner in a (non-casual) relationship.
SOG
Shots on goal, attempts at orgasm.
Soixante-Neuf
69. Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously. See also 69.
SOMF
Sat On My Face.
SOP
Stantard Operating Procedure.
South Of The Border
Genital region.
Southern France
Fellatio without a condom. See also French, BBBJ.
SP
Service Provider, see also ASP.
Spanish (Australian Usage)
Penis between her breasts, Russian.
Spanish (USA Usage)
Penis, finger or toy comes out of the ASP’s ass, and goes directly into the ASP’smouth. See also Dirty Sanchez, ATM.
Spinner
A very petite provider. So petite in fact, she could easily spin around the client’s erect penis in a position like Asian Cowgirl.
Squirting, SquirterFemale ejaculation, an ASP who ejaculates.SRS
Sexual Reassignment Surgery.
ST
Short Time.
STD
Sexually Transmitted Disease.
Sting
A female police officer poses as an ASP to apprehend unsuspecting clients, or a male police officer poses as a client to apprehend unsuspecting ASPs.
Stone Butch Lesbian
A lesbian who gets her pleasure from pleasing her partner. She does not like to be touched sexually.
STR
Short Term Relationship.
Street Action
Prostitution that is solicited on public streets. Prostitutes (usually on foot) are picked up by clients in motor vehicles. Sexual acts may occur in the vehicle, or at another agreed upon location.
Stroll
A street, strip, or neighborhood that sees heavy street action.
Sunshine, SunnyWithout a condom (i.e. no raincoat).
SW
- Street walker
- Sex Worker
Sybian
A mechanical sex device shaped as a half-barrel with a dildo mounted in the middle.
SYT
Sweet Young Thing.
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T
Take Care Of Business
Payment is made to provider. e.g. “She wanted to take care of business first.”.
Teabag, Teabagging
To dunk ones scrotum into the open mouth of another person.
TAMP
Therapeutic Asian Massage Parlor.
TER
The erotic reviews sites, adult services classifieds board, and hobby discussion forums.
TG
Transgender. Catch-all term for transvestites, transsexuals, shemales, and CDs.
TGTBT
Too Good To Be True.
Throne Job
Self-service. Refers to an establishment that doesn’t offer FS. The premises will only have a large chair or “throne” for you to sit on and masturbate while the woman dances for you.
Tipping Required
The ASP demands more than the advertised price in order to perform, or bargains hard for various services. See also upselling, hidden charges.
To Completion
Until orgasm.
TOFTT
Take One For The Team. What a hobbyist is said to do when they see an enigmaticASP. Some argue that a hobbyist is only TOFTT when the experience ends up to be a bad experience. Others argue that if the hobbyist doesn’t report back in some way, e.g., with a review, then the hobbyist has not TOFTT.
Toss The Salad
Analingus.
Trans, TrannyAn inclusive term, encompassing transgender, transsexual and other gender variantpeople.Transgender
A person whose gender expression is different from how society says they are “supposed” to be. Transgender can be an umbrella term for cross-dressers,transsexuals, intersex people and other gender-variant individuals.
Transsexual
A person with the urge to be the opposite sex. They may or may not choose to have gender reassignment surgery.
Translated French, TFOral sex with a condom.Translation, TranslatorCondom, e.g., “She spoke fluent French without a translator” = BBBJ.Transvestite
A person who sometimes wears clothes traditionally worn by and associated with the opposite sex; typically a male who cross-dresses occasionally by habit or compulsion.
Trick
- A sex act for money, as in ‘She is turning tricks‘.
- A man who patronizes prostitutes, as in ‘That trick was a FOBU’.
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Trolling
The act of driving around looking for a prostitute. As in cruising.
- Posting to a discussion board with the intent to anger or incite others. One who does so is referred to as a ‘troll’.
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TS
Transsexual. A person with the urge to be the opposite sex. They may or may not choose to have gender reassignment surgery.
- Table Shower.
TTA
Tight Tan Ass.
Tuft
Pubic hair.TUMA
Tongue Up My Ass.
Turning Tricks
Prostitution.
TV
Transvestite. A person who sometimes wears clothes traditionally worn by and associated with the opposite sex; typically a male who cross-dresses occasionally by habit or compulsion.
TVSW
Transvestite Street Walker.
Two Call System
The general location is revealed during the first call; location specifics are revealed on the second call.
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U
Umbrella
Condom.
Uncovered or Untranslated without a condom.
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Upselling
An ASP takes the advertised fee upfront, but in the midst of the session she asks for more money for more services. (e.g. She might undress and give a massage for the advertised $$, but then ask for an additional $ for French, or $$ for FS, etc.), aka hidden charges.
UTF
Untranslated French. Oral sex without a condom.
UTR
Under The Radar; an ASP who maintains a very low profile; generally does not advertise, does not accept reviews, does not have a website and does not participate in hobby forums.
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W
WAH
Wild Ass Humping.
Water Sports
Urination play. see also golden shower.
Weeklies
Alternative weekly newspapers. These often contain various adult service listings, including massage and escort advertisements. e.g. The Village Voice, San Francisco Bay Guardian, The Stranger.
WF
Wild Fuck.
WG
Working Girl. A prostitute.
White Knight
A hobbyist who defends or “comes to the rescue” of a provider who has been reviewed or spoken of poorly, regardless of whether the review or comments are accurate, akadefender.
WIR
Would I Repeat, Would I Return, Would I Recommend.
With
With a condom (e.g. French with = CBJ).
Without
Without a condom. (e.g. French without = BBBJ).
WL
Working Lady.
WOA
Word of Advice.
Womyn
An alternative spelling of woman or women often favored by feminists.
Working Girl
A prostitute.
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YL
Young Lady.
YMMV
Your Mileage May Vary. A overused, common sense disclaimer meant to convey that an ASP may do things with one person, but not with another. Often used as a caveat, “Don’t accuse me of a false report if she doesn’t do the same with you.”.
YMMV Girl
An ASP who is known for being inconsistent in her attitude and service. i.e. Gets hot and cold reviews.
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Other common internet abbreviations
AAMOF
As A Matter Of Fact.
ADN
Any Day Now.
AFAHMASP
A Fool And His Money Are Soon Parted.
AFAIAC
As Far As I Am Concerned.
AFAIK
As Far As I Know.
AIMB
As I Mentioned Before.
ASAD
All-Singing All-Dancing.
ATM
At The Moment.
ATST
At The Same Time.
BION
Believe It Or Not.
BOGOF
Buy One Get One Free.
BRB
Be Right Back.
BRBBRB
Be Right Back – Bathroom Break.
BRBCB
Be Right Back – Coffee Break.
BRLCFH
Broke Ribs Laughing, Call For Help.
BTSOOM
Beats The Stuffing Out Of Me.
BTW
By The Way.
CYA
Cover Your Ass.
DC
Double-Click.
DILIGA (S | F | D)
Do I look like I give a (S**t) (F**k) (Damn) ?.
ETHOM
Excuse The Hell Out of Me.
FOOMCBASL
Falling Out Of My Chair Busting A Spleen Laughing.
FKA
Formerly Known As.
FUBAR
Fouled Up Beyond All Repair/Recognition.
FWIW
For What Its Worth.
FYI
For Your Information.
FYR
For Your Records.
GD&R
Grin, Duck and Run.
IAC
In Any Case.
IANALB
I Am Not A Lawyer But.
ICOCBW
I Could, Of Course, Be Wrong.
IM(H)O
In My (Humble) Opinion.
IOW
In Other Words
ISO
In Search Of
ISTR
I Seem To Remember
IWIK
I Wish I knew
KIT
Keep In Touch
L&G
Latest And Greatest
LMK
Let Me Know
LOL
Laughing Out Loud
LTNS
Long Time No See
LUKHITO
Let Us Know How It Turns Out
MBWA
Management By Wandering Around
MMF
Make Money Fast (scam)
NIMBY
Not In My Back Yard
NTYMI
Now That You Mention It
OMG
Oh My God/Gosh
OTOH
On The Other Hand
PEBKAC
Problem Exists Between Keyboard And Chair
PEBMAC
Problem Exists Between Monitor And Chair
PM[F]JI
Pardon Me [For] Jumping In
QQ
Quick Question
ROFL
Rolls On Floor Laughing
ROTFLMAO
Rolling On The Floor Laughing My Ass Off
TFX
Too Flippin’ eXpensive
TIA
Thanks In Advance
TPTB, PTB
The Powers That Be
TTBOMK
To The Best Of My Knowledge
TTYL
Talk To You Later
TWT
Time Will Tell
WAD
Working As Designed
WAS
Wait And See
WTHDIK
What The Hell Do I Know
YHBT
You Have Been Trolled